By Dominique Soguel
WeNews correspondent
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Iraqi women who have fled to Syria to escape the U.S.-led war face another form of violence: sales to brothels by male relatives desperate for money. Damascus is escalating its legal response to trafficking, but the risks remain high.
Left behind, Um Ali seized the opportunity to file for divorce. Evicted by her landlord because she was unable to afford rent, she shuttled her four children and 20 suitcases to temporary housing, each time vulnerable to sex requests from tenants and owners, until finally landing at a U.N.-funded shelter for women in late 2009.
A falling out with the shelter's management put her on the streets again with only a 24-hour notice. She says she left involuntarily but was coerced to sign to the contrary under threats of internment in a mental asylum and interference with her resettlement case.
Um Ali, her three daughters and one son now share a single room apartment with a tiny kitchen-bathroom annexed to it. Despite receiving a monthly U.N. stipend--the standard $220 for households headed by women--she can't afford to buy potable water in the summer when taps have dried out.
She pays $177 in rent and spends the rest--less than $1.50 a day--feeding five people.
"We are desperate," she told Women's eNews. "No one protects us. The U.N. has failed us."
She has received five new text message threats since leaving the women's shelter last summer. Panic attacks and nightmares follow. In her fear of being found by her brothers or ex-husband, she has cut all ties with her nuclear and extended family.
Syria is scaling up its efforts to protect refugee women such as Um Ali who are vulnerable to kidnapping, sex-trafficking and forced prostitution while trying to survive in low-income suburbs of Damascus.
A law that took effect in April established protection measures for victims of trafficking as well as punishments of at least seven years for its perpetrators and beneficiaries.
To promote the law's implementation and share best practices, Damascus in June hosted a global conference on human trafficking that brought together more than 120 law enforcement and non-governmental experts from over 50 countries through INTERPOL, the international police organization based in Lyon, France.
National and international organizations have also hosted a variety of awareness-raising initiatives. In September, the Syrian Women's Union, the U.N. High Commissioner for Human Rights and the International Organization for Migration held a two-day workshop in Damascus on stepping up anti-trafficking measures.
"Trafficking is increasingly a problem due to armed conflicts in our region," said Majida Qutaiet, head of the Damascus-based Syria Women's Union, which plans to open a counseling center for survivors of trafficking and gender-based violence in 2011. There is already one center in the northern city of Aleppo and one center in Damascus.
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Dominique Soguel is Women's eNews Arabic editor.
Submitted by Janet (2 years ago)
How can women on this North American continent help this woman and her family? Surely, not doing something is leaving her to be killed and her daughters to be sold. It is the reporter's job to tell of the situation, but, for this story, there is really a "...now what?"
Submitted by anonymous123 (2 years ago)
To Dominique Soguel
How can I make an anonymous donation to this family? I am interested in donating $20 per month, plus $10 per month per each of her children successfully attending and passing school. This is a shame, no one should have to take care of a family for $1.5 per day
Submitted by Willow (2 years ago)
I agree. There must be something American women can do to help this situation. Any suggestions?