By Angeli R. Rasbury
Sunday, April 22, 2012
When a young mother fears she might lose her child to public authorities a transitional housing program can be a lifeline. Researchers say many young women also need developmental support and help staying in their own communities.
(WOMENSENEWS)--Selena Lyons was living with her father and his girlfriend not long ago. But then her father's girlfriend received an eviction notice.
At that point Lyons feared she would wind up living out in New York City's cold streets.
The soft-spoken 22-year-old says she was scared the Administration for Children's Services would take her 3-year-old daughter Dymiah from her.
But that didn't happen.
Instead, Lyons, recently met this reporter in a room that she shares with Dymiah in Bedford-Stuyvesant, a Brooklyn neighborhood. There are twin beds and the room is full of puzzles, a Dora the Explorer doll, Care Bears. There's lots of pink, Dymiah's favorite color.
The room is part of the Rose F. Kennedy Family Center, a transitional housing program for young mothers and their children. It has been run since 1998 by the New York City Department of Homeless Services, which operates 27 such facilities.
The center, complete with on-site day care, has been a lifeline for Lyons.
She says her own mother is in Virginia. Her child's father is in Florida and offers no support. She says her father has a serious mental illness. Before she left the apartment she filed a police report against her father, saying he threatened to kill Dymiah.
Lyons says life is still stressful. For comfort she turns to the Bible. "I read it every night," she says. She points to it on the windowsill.
About 25 percent of the families served by the Department of Housing and Urban Development's homeless program have a parent under 25.
Nan Roman, president of the Washington-based National Alliance to End Homelessness, would like to see more housing assistance aimed at stabilizing young families in their existing communities.
"Then they're more stable. The kids don't have to change schools. They can build up support networks in the community. But the services have to be available and they have to be connected to services."
Roman says subsidies also are needed to help mothers exit transitional housing and find more permanent homes. "If someone helps pay for the housing, they can get in a place."
Roman says the problem with transitional housing is the impermanence. "It's not like a place where you're really going to be living. There's a lot that's done for you. You have a lot of support, and then you're going to have to leave, and you won't be integrated into a community."
After mothers leave transitional housing they have to arrange for their children's schools and caretaking arrangements all over again.
Roman also emphasizes the need for developmentally appropriate services for young women who are coping with the demands of motherhood.
At the Kennedy Family Center, Director Vanessa Boucher says the staff works to get its 14 residents ready for employment. That can mean helping residents prepare for interviews, including tips on personal appearance.
The staff also helps its residents gain public assistance, provides referrals for work training. They also run weekly workshops on topics such as nutrition, financial literacy and recovering from domestic violence.
Residents usually stay between six months and a year. A spokesperson for the New York City Department of Homeless Services says they are welcome to stay as long as needed.
Kristin Moore is a senior scholar at Child Trends, a Washington-based nonpartisan research center on children at all stages of development.
Moore says little is known about what happens to the young mothers who don't get the help or special developmental support they need. Some wind up in the foster care system, along with their children. Some are runaways.
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